Nigerian Afrobeats singer Divine Ikubor, popularly known as Rema, has opened up about a recent heartbreak, revealing that a woman he wanted to have a serious relationship with declined his proposal because she was not ready for a committed relationship.
Rema made the disclosure during a livestream with streamer Okiki on Friday night while discussing his personal experiences and the inspiration behind his song, Oh No. The singer said he approached the woman because he wanted a long-term relationship, but she told him she still wanted to experience life as a single woman.
According to Rema, the woman was not prepared to commit to one person and did not want to leave the dating scene at that point. He said the rejection affected him emotionally and eventually influenced his creative process.
“The song was inspired by a lady I wanted a serious relationship with, but she said she still wants to be on the streets,” Rema said.
The singer did not reveal the identity of the woman or provide extensive details about their relationship. Instead, he used the experience to explain the personal story behind Oh No, giving fans additional context about the emotions reflected in the song.
Rema also spoke about his rapid rise in the Nigerian music industry, saying his life changed significantly after he became famous at the age of 17. He explained that the speed of his success has prompted him to take time to reassess different aspects of his life.
“Everything moved so fast,” he said, according to reports.
The revelation has attracted attention from fans because it provides a glimpse into the personal experiences that can influence an artist’s music. It also shows how relationship experiences can become part of the creative process.
Rema emerged as a major Afrobeats star as a teenager and has since gained international recognition through songs including Calm Down. His latest comments offer further insight into the personal experiences behind his evolving musical output.
